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Last time on ANCHORED, we talked about the difference between keeping the peace and living in true peace. We discovered that following Jesus doesn't always mean avoiding conflict. Sometimes, genuine peace starts with that conversation we've been putting off.
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We live in a world that celebrates speed.
Food arrives in minutes. Packages show up the next day. We can learn a new skill online, stream almost any movie instantly, and get a message across to someone on the other side of the world in seconds.
Without realizing it, we begin to expect the same from God.
We pray for patience and hope we'll wake up tomorrow with a patient heart. We ask God to heal our past and wonder why the pain continues to linger months later. We ask Him to strengthen our faith, overcome a temptation, restore a relationship, or open a new door, and when nothing seems to happen in our timeline, we often assume nothing is happening at all.
But God's work doesn’t follow our timetable.
The changes we long for often happen slowly, quietly, and in ways we don't immediately notice.
God is never in a hurry
One of the hardest lessons we learn as Christians is that God is never rushed.
Think about Abraham. God promised that he would become the father of many nations, yet years passed before Isaac was born. Every passing year must have made the promise seem less likely to happen. Yet God hadn't forgotten His promise. He was keeping His word in His perfect timing.
Then there's Joseph. As a young man, God gave him dreams of leadership. But before those dreams became reality, Joseph experienced betrayal, slavery, false accusations, and prison. From a human perspective, it looked as though his life was moving backward. But God wasn't delaying His plan. He was preparing Joseph for it.
Again and again, Scripture reminds us that waiting is never in vain when God is the One leading us.
Growth usually happens where no one can see it
One of the reasons we get discouraged is because we measure our lives by what's visible right now.
But think about how a deep wound actually heals. For days, sometimes weeks, it looks the same, or worse, from the outside. You can't see the new skin forming underneath, the tissue knitting back together, the cells repairing, the body quietly doing exactly what it was designed to do. If you judged the healing only by what you could see when the pain is still a lot and the healing is not visible, you'd assume nothing was happening. Then one day the bandage comes off and the change becomes visible to all.
Our lives often work the same way.
The patience you're praying for may be forming through that difficult coworker you see every day. The trust God is building may be developing through the unanswered prayer you've prayed for months. The compassion you didn't have for people a year ago may have been shaped by the very suffering you wished would end sooner.
Much of God's work happens beneath the surface, long before we can see the results.
That's true when He strengthens our faith. It's true when He teaches us to trust Him. It's true when He heals old wounds or shapes our character. The deepest work God does in our lives is often the work that takes the longest.
Perhaps that's why Paul describes qualities like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control as the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23). A fruit doesn't grow overnight. It grows over time. In the same way, the work of God's Spirit in our lives is usually gradual rather than sudden.
Don't mistake slow progress for no progress
Perhaps you've been following Jesus for years and expected to be further along by now.
You still lose your temper sometimes. You still wrestle with anxiety. You still find yourself praying about the same struggles you've prayed about for years. It's easy to feel as though you've failed. But spiritual growth isn't measured by whether you've become perfect. It's measured by whether you're becoming more like Christ.
Growth is often easier to see when you look back than when you're living through it. The temptation that once controlled you may no longer have the same hold. Your first response to hardship may now be prayer instead of panic.
Those changes may feel small. But they are evidence that God is still at work.
James reminds us to "consider it pure joy" when we face trials because God uses them to produce perseverance. And perseverance, when it has finished its work, produces maturity (James 1:2–4).
Practical Steps
Keep bringing it to God. Don't stop praying just because the answer hasn't come yet. Some of the greatest prayers in Scripture were prayed over long seasons of waiting. Keep talking to God, even when your circumstances haven't changed.
Notice the small signs of God's faithfulness. Instead of looking only for the breakthrough, thank God for the smaller ways He's been providing, strengthening, and carrying you. They remind you that He is still at work.
Be faithful with today's assignment. You may not know what God is doing next, but you do know what He's asking of you today. Pray. Read His Word. Love your family well. Serve faithfully where you are. Don't let tomorrow's uncertainty distract you from the truth of His word.
Remember what God has done before. When you're tempted to believe nothing is changing, take time to look back. You'll often find that God has been working in ways you didn't recognize at the time.
One Last Thing
We often pray for God to change our circumstances. God is just as interested in changing us.
Abraham didn't simply receive the gift of a son. He learned what it meant to trust God's promises along the way.
Joseph didn't simply become a ruler. Through years of waiting, God shaped him into a man who could lead with wisdom, humility, and forgiveness.
God's goal has never been to get us to the finish line as quickly as possible. His goal is to make us more like Christ along the way. So if this season feels slower than you hoped, don't assume God is doing nothing. Some of His greatest work happens quietly, patiently, and almost unnoticed.
And one day, you'll look back and realize that while you were waiting for God to change your circumstances, He was faithfully changing you.
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